That’s not fair to expect him or anyone to be perfect. So it’s not fair to hold your significant other to an unrealistic high expectation. Listen, we are all human and we all make mistakes. When you figure out what those things are you will be a lot happier and can actually start down the road of a happy, healthy relationship. If YOU don’t know what you want, then how can others give it to you? Think carefully about what you want in a relationship and what you need to make you happy. The biggest mistake girls make in a relationship is not knowing what they really want. If you haven’t been dating him seriously for at least 3 months then don’t share any personal feelings with him and that most especially includes I love you.
Drama queens tend to state their love for a man far too early and then freak out when he doesn’t respond in kind. And whatever you do, don’t get any big ideas about sharing how you feel about him either. If something upsets you, work it out … don’t drag it out for days and make a big deal out of everything. Don’t be a drama queen in a relationship because in the end, all you will get is a dysfunctional relationship after dysfunctional relationships. I know you may think it’s cute but really it’s not.
I get that sometimes you are upset and really want to tell him about that, but there is a time and place for everything and work isn’t it. When someone is at work, LEAVE THEM ALONE. Unless you are a full-blown psycho, don’t show up at his work for any reason whatsoever and yes, this includes calling him at work. Like a fine wine, a healthy relationship needs room to breathe. GET A LIFE!! Go take a class, learn a foreign language, hang out with a friend, go see a movie, do anything … just do something that isn’t with your boyfriend. Besides making yourself a better person by being more independent, it will make you appear more mysterious and he’ll want you even more! Seriously … take this advice more than anything else. It’s great having a boyfriend but if you want to keep him then you’ll have things of your own to do without him.
I mean honestly, do you really need to know if she was a better kisser than you? Also, people tend to romanticize the past so if you get him thinking about those good old days then she might be the one he’s calling tomorrow. It’s immature and can lead to all sorts of problems in your relationship. Under no circumstances should you ever ask him about his ex-girlfriends and you should never bring up your ex-boyfriends.
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